2022.01.22 05:08 CalmImagination7873 My BF is surreal…In a bad way?
Me (26 F) and my bf (29 M) have been dating for just under a year.
He is truly everything I’ve ever looked for. He is a sweet person inside and out. I love him very much. He takes great care of his family and has wonderful friends. He is kind, funny, understanding, and supportive.
But…he changes in our relationship. One moment things are on top of the world. I’ve never felt love like this before. He will do such kind things for me: have notes laid out, drive me in the cold even if it means a long day for him, tells me how beautiful I am everyday. We even travelled across the world (literally) to meet his family. He has some past relationship scars. Previously divorced. But nothing that a little bit of acceptance can’t handle. So that doesn’t bother me at all.
The problem comes in when he changes. Things will go great one day and the next he says, “I can’t do this anymore….my life is garbage… I’ve become obsessed…you dated people before me and that makes me feel so Icky.”
I can be consistently texting and responding within 5-10 minutes (for him that’s big) and if even one time I take 30 minutes to message back (maybe I was doing homework or talking to my mom)..He will delete his sent messages so I can no longer read them and go cold. He’ll cancel plans with me and say he needs space. He will tell me I don’t know how to be in a relationship. Then he instead will make plans with his sibling (F) and do things with them that the two of us were supposed to do together. He will claim we are two different people. And how he doesn’t think I care about him. He threatens to break up…about every three weeks.
This drastic behaviour also happens if I politely say no to eating dinner if I have already ate (coming home late from uni or work) or if I want to make something else for myself (I have lots of food allergies). Or if I tell him he doesn’t need me pick up when he asks from uni as a family member already is- he interprets all this as complete rejection. Like I don’t want him around. And he pulls back.
Lately, he received good news and wanted to celebrate. I had to pack and organize my material for nursing school so I can study at is house over the weekend, bring all my clothes, makeup, shoes (which I don’t mind at all to clarify) but due to that I was running a bit behind for when he was supposed to pick me up. I had to put my pants and shoes on- last minute outfit change- and I’d be out the door in 4 minutes. He told me not the bother coming, he would leave and go have dinner with his sibling- leaving me and my packed bags. He had dinner around the corner from my home, I asked to join them and he said he was now in a really bad mood and didn’t want to be around me. He then proceeded to call and yell at me for not caring, that I’m crazy, that I’m a manipulator, and that he’s not crazy.
My question is: could this be BPD?
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2022.01.22 05:08 Responsible-Ad2831 Could use some advice here
All of my girlfriends previous partners were black men, and were both white. I have weird anxiety about her not actually being attracted to me which I feel is stupid because why would she be with me? But then again I help with her kid and the bills, but she wouldn’t have gotten with me in the first place right? Idk I need to see a therapist but Reddit might offer a bit help because it sometimes overwhelms my mind with anxiety
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So I've basically just got into jogging and it's been feeling amazing physically and mentally. I've been starting low but kind of jumped from around 3 to 6-7km in one go every or every other day. Doesn't seem much but I'm having this pain when I press the space behind my left ankle bone and I'm wondering where it might come from.
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2022.01.22 05:08 LunarHippie96 Long time BF continually abuses me & Destroys our home
We’ve been together nearly 4 years. We have blow up fights all of the time where he pushes me (HARD, I hit furniture or the wall and end up battered and bruised), or destroys the house. He says my attitude, my mouth, and my escalation of the situation is the reason he becomes physical. I can admit i egg him on and often don’t let him leave when he tries to escape the situation. I am willing to accept 50% of the blame. Most recently, after an argument I started over him having the tv too loud when i had to be sleeping before my 16 hour double, he destroyed our dogs house, and ripped our bedroom wall off of its hinges before pummeling it into pieces. Pushed me around a bit, spit in my face so many times I couldn’t open my eyes under the goo, and threw me into the couch so hard my knee immediately bruises and swole up. I packed up and left and said we need time to figure out how to progress. I was badly bruised and hurt. We’ve been apart for almost a week and today he seems to have cut it off, saying he’s done. So I slept with an old very close friend from High School. It was amazing, I always daydreamed of sleeping with him. Even though it was amazing I can’t help but be extremely sad over my ex. He hurts me but I love him. I hope I can find peace and happiness. I hope I can learn to be better, and I hope he can control his anger and find true love. I’m very sad it couldn’t be with me.
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