2021.10.23 22:17 armchairsexologist Revelatuons from the book "Playing Sick" by Marc Feldman
I've been reading this book for a while, as Muchausen syndrome always fascinated me and I grew up with someone with factitious disorder, but this sub encouraged me to pick it up again. A couple things I've realized based on the discussion of factitious disorder (essentially habitual lying about yourself to get attention) and MBP:
Parents who have MBP often have a history of factitious disorder separate from the illness inducing, and apparently the most common thing people lie about are the deaths of loved ones, most often children. If that isn't what Carly is doing with Louie idk what is. The other part of this that I feel is important to note is that people who lie like this fully and consciously know exactly what they're doing. After reading this book I think her seemingly psychotic bereavement could very well just be calculated lying.
Similarly, any parents who intentionally and knowingly inflicts medical harm on a child, which can also include medical NEGLECT, often in an attempt to hide what they are doing from doctors, is MBP. I'm thinking of Madi's ankle here.
Another thing to note is that not all MBP is directed at medical diagnoses and treatment. It can also involve real-life communities like school or church, or I believe in the case of Crust and McDumb, their tiktok and instagram followers.
I'll also leave the following passage here:
"They may simply adore the attention MBP produces for them. Having an ill child brings them a certain kind of misguided status. Their child's illness is their claim to fame, and they bask in accolades from medical caregivers or the community about their devoted parenting.
The father may be emotionally distant from both mother and child and unconcerned about or literally unaware of the child's illness. He may be a traditionalist who believes that anything involving the children is his wife's responsibility, and that he is a great father by virtue of being a single minded, dependable breadwinner. The mother then aims to prove her worth by caring unwaveringly for their offspring despite the adversity of illness.
The child's illness may bring about a closer relationship between the parents. Arguments cease and the parents unite when faced with the common adversity of a sickly child. This closeness may suit the mother, who sustains it by keeping the child ill.
Others need to feel that the child is totally dependent on them and force this dependency through induction of illness."
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2021.10.23 22:17 Blocks_and_Chains I can’t figure it out if you can use this HOLD card outside UE - paying and withdrawing in Latin America for ex.. What about the limits and fees for outside UE if it works? Thanks
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2021.10.23 22:17 Just_Jack_123 The Dusttale mod isn’t really underrated but i feel like it isn’t talked about enough
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2021.10.23 22:17 Altruistic_Tap4154 GX grey shampoo caused me to have excessive hair shedding and hair thinning. Two and a half years later and my hair is still thin due to this product. Has anyone experienced the same thing and did your hair eventually thicken up to the way it was before using the shampoo and how long did it take?
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2021.10.23 22:17 lavender-witch How to overcome insecure attachment?
I’ve (22f) got an insecure/anxious attachment style. When I’m taking care of my mental health and doing things I enjoy, focusing on myself and enjoying others as extras in my life, things go really well. I’m able to interact with others and enjoy my time with them, but not cling to them.
But often, I’ll have a really good interaction with my friend or SO, and I’ll cling to that feeling. I’ll become obsessed. It’s almost like I mistake the good feelings for them being like the “cure” to my unhappiness. I’ll begin to neglect myself to focus on how often they respond, seek reassurance if they’re mad/still like me, worry about the future of the friendship/relationship, have extreme positive mood swings when we talk then crash when we’re unable to, etc.
I’ve also noticed that when someone is anxious to talk to me, or gets very serious, I become very anxious and distance myself out of fear.
It’s a very destructive cycle. I’m in therapy, and improved a bit. I’ve been told that self-love and enjoying spending time alone will help. But it always comes back. I’m not sure how to truly love myself without depending on others. I’m also worried that if I don’t have a tight grip or my relationships and friendships, they’ll go away. Or that I don’t care about them enough.
I’m not sure if any of this makes sense. But any advice or guidance would be really helpful.
Do I just need got give myself permission to put myself first and love myself?
Why do I randomly start clinging to others and depending on them for reassurance and validation, when other times I’m ok?
Tldr: Off and on anxious avoidant, it’s exhausting and self-destructive, need advice.
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2021.10.23 22:17 Blueberryfeilds4ever Psychiatric Service Dogs in Canada?
Hello, I've been interested in finding a psychiatric service dog to help me with my anxiety, depression and ADHD. I've done some research on the idea, and spoken to my therapist who agrees it might be a good option for me along with my medication and other things I'm doing.
However, from what I understand Psychiatric Service Dogs aren't really acknowledged in Canada by law unless for PTSD, which I don't have (and even then, its confusing as heck). I'm not too concerned with the legal aspect of things, as I work from home and I think for the most part could get by with a "Emotional Support Animal" type certifications for travel ect. until the laws and awareness here catch up.
My problem is finding a dog that is trained to do PSD tasks. I can't find anywhere in Canada that offers to match people with dogs like this. I can't train the dog myself, as I've never had a dog, live alone, and would get overwhelmed and panicked with an untrained animal. Would I be able to get a dog from the USA? How would I go about doing this and making sure it's a reputable source? Is there anyone else in Canada who has gone through this process already who could give me some advice? Thanks
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2021.10.23 22:17 bombers9327 Advice
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